Hey, sister! Welcome back to a Taylored Adventure to Happiness. If you are new, welcome! If you are a regular, I love ya, I love ya, I love ya!
I am so excited to share today’s episode with you. Here’s what happened — you asked some questions, and I answered them! That’s right, we are going to dive into a Q&A, and this one has some seriously juicy topics.
If you aren’t familiar with my free online Facebook community group, we are called “Women Manifesting Abundance.” Every few weeks I open up the floor for any questions and then I answer them on the podcast!
I’m sure you will get a ton of juicy goodness out of these questions. If you are reading this post, you are a part of the vortex of women in a journey of self-growth, spiritual expansion, and ascension!
Even if you think you have a question that no one else would relate to, you are always going to find someone else that’s dealing with the exact same struggle! That’s why I fucking love doing these Q&As — they remind us that we are not alone.
Sister, you are not alone on your path to abundance. There are so many other women here like you who are passionate about evolving, ascending, and releasing what no longer serves them. I know you will see yourself in these questions, and I hope you get so much value out of my answers!
In this post, we dive all into eliminating imposter syndrome, dealing with the emotional rollercoaster of life, handling the chaos of the world, shifting into 5D, owning your worth, and more! So let’s get started, shall we?
How to Kick Imposter Syndrome to the Curb
I’m just gonna go ahead and say it — imposter syndrome is the fucking worst. It exhausts you, limits your productivity, and discourages you from making the leaps of faith that will bring you to the next level in your business and in your life.
So many people struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they aren’t as good as those around them and constantly facing self-doubt and feelings of inadequacy. Have you ever felt like this? You can probably relate to this first question from Sarah, which is: “Even though I have a higher level of education and am more experienced than others in the same field, I feel too ‘salesy’ when I’m letting people know about my offers.”
Sarah is dealing with imposter syndrome in her own business, and I can definitely say I’ve had the same problem! When I first shifted from the fitness industry into doing mindset work, I felt like a sleazy imposter.
I kept thinking, “Who am I to talk about this? I still have my own insecurities, doubts, fears, and traumas — who am I to ask people to invest in me to talk about this?” I went through that period feeling like I wasn’t “good enough.” I would join elite-level programs and think, “There’s no way I am good enough to be here.”
So — you’re probably wondering — what shifted for me? Well, the answer has three parts. First of all, I realized that I had worked through many lifetimes to get to where I was at. Sister, you have too! Whether you have tons of experience in your field or one year, you are not brand new. What you are passionate about is something that you have been working towards for many lifetimes.
The second thing that shifted for me was that I realized that imposter syndrome is based on an illusion. It thrives off the idea that you are not good enough, or that someone else should be in the position you are in.
But I’m here to tell you something — that’s just not fucking true. Everyone else is trying the best they can with what they’ve got. That realization was so critical for me, and I hope it helps you the same way.
The third thing that helped me shift from a mindset of imposter syndrome was when I stopped making it about me! Instead, I saw my work as a responsibility that I had. We are all here to offer our gifts, our love, our light, and our services — whatever that might look like. I have a responsibility to lend my support and my gifts to the people who need it. Sister, you do too!
When you can shift from making it about you and instead make it about the person on the receiving end, you can own your worth. You can know that you are enough and that the energetic work that you have put into your passion is worthy of receiving financial abundance.
You can be a leader and own the fact that you have the heart, passion, and knowledge to offer your gifts to the world. When we can see it like that — from a place of service and love — we can kick that fucking imposter syndrome back into the abyss where it belongs.
Remember — it’s not always going to be a perfect “fix.” There will be days when you think imposter syndrome was a bad dream, and other days where you feel those feelings of self-doubt creep back into your mindset. But guess what? That’s okay! Congratulations — you’re human!
Being human is a beautiful thing, but it can feel like a roller coaster of emotions sometimes. That brings us to our next question about how to handle the highs and lows of ascension!
How to Handle the Emotional Rollercoaster of Life
Amber had a question that I absolutely loved. She said: “I am constantly feeling like I am in a washing machine — centered and bright one minute followed by wanting to crawl in bed and cry. I know this as an opportunity to work on my mindset, and it’s about progress, not perfection. I just don’t know where to start.”
Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt like this. I know fucking I have! One minute you’re on Cloud Nine, feeling #abundantAF and aligned with your spirit guides. The next minute, you’re spiraling back down to square one.
Sometimes all it takes is getting on social media or having someone say something negative that drags you back down into the shit. Maybe something reminds you of an old wound that hasn’t healed. Or maybe you don’t even know what happened and just suddenly are thrown into a low frequency!
Sister, that is part of being human. We get to have all the fucking emotions, especially when you are on this journey of self-growth, self-discovery, and self-expansion. That’s just what happens when we become more attuned with what feels good to us.
When we become aligned and grounded, the light that we are stepping into is so bright that it shines on our shadow selves, our insecurities, old beliefs, and old situations that we haven’t yet healed. That’s why going through your spiritual journey is going to feel like an emotional roller coaster!
So what do we do about it? The first step is a lot of self-compassion. Remind yourself when you hit the lowest moments to breathe light and love into them. Don’t give yourself a hard time or get frustrated with yourself for not always being positive.
Instead, think about the low moments as opportunities to grow. See what is coming up for you during those, whether that is fear of judgment, fear of failure, or anything else. Ask yourself, “What have I been avoiding that I can heal if I give it more light and love and compassion?”
Sister, start with the compassion that you are doing the best you can with what you’ve got. This roller coaster of growth is going to have highs and lows, and that is all part of the process! When you can learn to embrace the low moments as moments of growth, it gets so much easier.
Remember — where our attention goes, our energy flows! When you breathe love and light into the shadow moments, you can raise your vibrations and expand into who you are becoming. You can shift your frequency into a higher one just by changing the way you approach the lows! Isn’t that so fucking cool? Ascending into that higher energetic frequency is what shifting into 5D is all about, which brings us to our next question!
How to Shift into 5D
Siara asked an awesome question that I was psyched to answer, which was: “[Can you go into] all things 5D? … I’m obsessed and need more tangible steps to help receive it and get into it.”
If you want to hear about 5D, you’ve come to the right place because I’m obsessed too! I could talk for hours about it, but I really want to take this time to go into the basic differences between 3D and 5D.
First of all, 5D is not a place. It’s an energetic frequency. And we are shifting into it very rapidly as a collective consciousness, which is why tons of people are having spiritual awakenings and doing shadow work!
Let’s compare it to 3D for a second. 3D is very “matrix.” It’s the nine-to-five life where you come home from work, make dinner, and put on the news. 3D is a robotic, black-and-white way of living. It’s also a very judgmental way of living. Sounds gross, right? So many people live their entire lives in this frequency without even realizing it!
On the other hand, 5D is all about love. Love is at the core of this frequency, which is why I am constantly telling people, “I love you. I see you.” Love is the only thing that exists in 5D! There is no black or white, right or wrong, better or worse. None of that exists — it’s just people co-creating a beautiful space of love as a collective consciousness.
So what does being in this 5D space actually look like? A great sign that you have shifted into 5D is that you feel really good, and good things continuously happen to you. Maybe clients are signing up to work with you, or you get compliments left and right. When you’re in 5D, you’re not setting expectations or judgments. You are simply in love with life.
If you follow me on social media and watch my Instagram stories, you know that I love life. I love you. I love traveling and supporting my clients. This love of life creates a space where opportunities flow to me effortlessly, and that’s just how it works!
When you ascend into 5D, you will be able to create massive abundance in your life. The energetic shifts that are happening right now will open portals that allow you to manifest so much faster. You will be able to allow yourself to receive the opportunities that empower you and make your life better!
Doesn’t that sound amazing? Sister, it’s so fucking beautiful. But to get there, you have to stick to the process and commit to learning more about it. Think about it as an opportunity to undo old patterns and old beliefs and step fully into who you’re meant to be, which is pure divine love. That’s some juicy stuff, right? It can completely change your life if you allow it. I hope you will choose to let this happen for you!
We’re in This Together
Sister, I hope that you were able to relate to those questions and know that you are not alone. That’s the beautiful part about this community. You and the other thousands of women that listen alongside you are all in this together.
You are not alone. We all have similar blocks and insecurities. And when we can put ourselves into situations that allow us to support each other, we get to grow and heal so much faster!
As you move through this ascension journey, beginning to uncover blocks and allowing yourself to truly step into a life of freedom, come join us in Ascend! This is a tribe of women who are going to ascend and expand together, freeing themselves from fear of judgment, fear of failure, and everything else that’s buried in every single chakra.
They are freeing themselves to become #AbundantAF and speak their truth, and I hope you can join us in that beautiful space!
Remember to go check out the rest of the podcast episode for all of the other juicy questions and answers! And if anything in this episode hits home for you, be sure to share it with someone who needs it and tag me on Instagram @iamtaylorsimpson!
I love you. I see you. Until next time, always choose happiness because, well, why the fuck not?
In Today’s Episode You Will Learn:
- How to eliminate imposter syndrome.
- Embracing the roller coaster ride spiritual awakening.
- Get to the root of your fears and release them.
- Journal prompts that allow the subconscious to pull up blocks from childhood.
- How to protect your energy and avoid absorbing others ‘ energy.
- The importance of a morning ritual.
- What is 5D and how to shift into it?
- How to deal with those who have different beliefs than you.
- Going from fear to freedom.