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April 2020

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“I’m beginning to resonate with the Bougie Que

“I’m beginning to resonate with the Bougie Queen but I’m struggling with shame around desiring money and nice things.⁣
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did you struggle with this at any point?”⁣
asked by a woman who had just taken the Untamed Archetype Quiz. ⁣
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she took it last month & got the Primal Medicine Woman which resonated deeply - but she felt like something was shifting within her so she took the quiz again. ⁣
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my answer: ⁣
I too struggled with shame around desiring money & having nice things. ⁣
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I had a story that wanting money + having nice things = I’d be a selfish person and people may judge me. ⁣
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so I spent years struggling with money, blocking it left & right, living paycheck to paycheck or when it would come in spend it all immediately. ⁣
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It was when a mentor at the very beginning of my Entrepreneurial journey said to me:⁣
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“When a good hearted woman steps into her financial power… she gives other women permission to do the same. And when good hearted women make a lot of money - they are able to do amazing things with it.”⁣
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that touched me so deeply in my soul, that it turned into a mantra I’ve since shared with my community:⁣
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“It is my responsibility to live life to my fullest & create massive wealth so others can see what’s possible and hopefully choose to do the same.”⁣
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women are rising into their financial power every day and saying “adios” to old beliefs around what it means to become a WealthyAF woman. ⁣
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I firmly believe we can be it all. ⁣
wealthyAF. ⁣
medicine women.⁣
free huggers.⁣
first class flyers.⁣
luxury bag owners.⁣
organic food shoppers. ⁣
donators to our favorite charities. ⁣
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we can be this AND that. ⁣
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if you too feel this way,⁣
that we can be it ALL,⁣
drop a “with you!” below to anchor it in. ⁣
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may we all rise into our financial power, Queens! ⁣

If you could extend the pleasure in different area

If you could extend the pleasure in different areas of your daily life that aren’t s3x related… ⁣⁣
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what would they be?⁣⁣
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this is a question I’ve been playing with while in Greece to get me hyper present to the deliciousness of each moment. ⁣⁣
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& here’s what has come up:⁣⁣
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instead of just looking at the sunsets, I drop into my body and see what the colors I’m gazing at feel like in my body. ⁣⁣
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the deep pinks are felt in my p*ssy, the purples light up my heart & the textures make me feel warm. ⁣⁣
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I then sit in this, allowing the pleasure of this sensation radiate through my body for as long as I can. ⁣⁣
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#YesPlease. ⁣⁣
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or when I’m eating fresh caught ceviche drizzled with honey & covered in chunks of mango…⁣⁣
holy pleasure town. ⁣⁣
with each bite, I close my eyes & let every taste bud light up, savoring all the flavors as if it’s my first time eating in days. ⁣⁣
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#YesMoreOfThisPlease. ⁣⁣
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or lastly in the case of these 2 video clips, ⁣
that I had no clue Johnny even took bc I was so fully submersed in the pleasure of enjoying our cabana & the stunning sea glimmering in front of me… ⁣
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#F*ckYesMorePlease. ⁣
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pleasure is an act of receiving. ⁣⁣
& the more we open ourselves up to fullllly receive…. ⁣⁣
the more space we create for the Universe to deliver even more of what we desire. ⁣⁣
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pleasure = receiving = self love = open for more. ⁣⁣
pro tip: *save this post to refer back to that equation if needed* ⁣⁣
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do you practice or want to begin practicing savoring more & extending the pleasure in moments throughout your day?⁣⁣
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if yes, let’s anchor this in together. ⁣⁣
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this week, what 1 area do you desire to focus on?⁣⁣
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when you eat?⁣⁣
put lotion on?⁣⁣
when dancing?⁣⁣
cooking?⁣⁣
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it’s the little moments for me, anyone else ?⁣

it’s the little moments for me, anyone else ?⁣⁣
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those in between moments that are filled with so much presence, play, deliciousness and that bring me right into the vibration of love that encompasses it all. ⁣⁣
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here are some sweet moments,⁣
I hope they bring you an extra sprinkle of joy! ⁣
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with love from Greece 🇬🇷💋🥂⁣
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p.s. who else turns into a child, splashing their partner in water and absolutely loves it?! asking for a friend. ;)

from living in my best friend’s basement at age

from living in my best friend’s basement at age 30 post-divorce bc I had nowhere else to go…⁣⁣
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to just a few years later becoming a self-made multi millionaire & living the life of my absolute dreams. ⁣⁣
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what’s it taken to get here?⁣⁣
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deep fucking courage. ⁣⁣
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absolute trust in myself & the universe.⁣⁣
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investing in myself by hiring mentors and joining programs even when I didn’t have the ‘money’ but knew they’d support me. ⁣⁣
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belief in myself and embracing the unknown in the biggest way I could.⁣⁣
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facing limiting beliefs head on. ⁣⁣
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choosing to expand when I wanted to contract. ⁣⁣
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surrounded myself with people who were also on a path of owning their greatness & loving themselves. ⁣⁣
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embracing all of who I BE, regardless if it made sense to anyone else. ⁣⁣
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owning my desires, in all of their bigness!⁣⁣
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we all have a story⁣⁣
& mine is consistently just beginning 🥂💋💸⁣⁣
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drop a “here for greatness!” if you too are on a path of living your best life! 🤍

but first… can we just take a moment for slide #

but first… can we just take a moment for slide # 6?! 🔥💦 ⁣⁣
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we happened upon the vibeyAF show 30 min before they were ending but damn was it worth the final few acts! ⁣⁣
I told @johnny.elsasser in my spare time I’m going to perform like that on stage 😉 ⁣⁣
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during this trip I’ve been consistently asking myself: ⁣⁣
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“how much bougier can I allow this moment to get?”⁣⁣
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whether that’s with how I pose for photos,⁣⁣
to ordering the fanciest glass of Rosé,⁣⁣
booking the best suite available at our hotels,⁣⁣
asking for the best seat at every restaurant we go to (& of course we always get it 💋)⁣⁣
or having a luxury car drive us around…⁣⁣
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*even the $30 tiny tiney drink in # 2🤣)*⁣⁣
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it’s been so deliciously fun!⁣⁣
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pre-entrepreneur days I used to judge people who would flaunt their fancy vacations,⁣⁣
who clearly had money,⁣⁣
or carried themselves in a way that I assumed they were full of themselves. ⁣⁣
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during this bougieAF vacation I realized “omg I’m the person that’s living the life I used to be *jealous* of!”⁣⁣
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& the magical part…⁣⁣
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I could give two f*cks how people perceive how I’m living it! 🥂⁣⁣
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money is simply an amplifier of who we be. ⁣⁣
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if someone is insecure,⁣⁣
money will amplify their need to prove themselves with their lifestyle. ⁣⁣
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just as,⁣⁣
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if someone is secure in who they are,⁣⁣
money amplifies their celebration of the life they’ve created. ⁣⁣
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so here I am,⁣⁣
shamelessly sharing that this has been the bougiest trip I’ve ever taken,⁣⁣
where we’ve never had to say “that costs too much” & have been in full celebration mode enjoying an experience of full luxury! ⁣⁣
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I am grateful to the humans, ones I’ve known or strangers in public,⁣⁣
that have been expanders (& continue to be) for me to see what’s possible. ⁣⁣
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do you too have people that you look to as expanders? ⁣⁣
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if so how do they inspire you? ⁣⁣
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ps: the final image with the bouquet of flowers… let’s just say my King got the memo & you’ll see that in a reel 💐

I try to keep things simple in my life, the less c

I try to keep things simple in my life, the less complicated the better. ⁣⁣
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It didn’t always used to be this way though,⁣⁣
especially when it came to posting on here. ⁣⁣
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“Is it the right time to post? What about the algorithm?”⁣⁣
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“Is the caption long enough? short enough?”⁣⁣
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“Will people get it? Will they comment? Like it?”⁣⁣
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I was the captain of the overthinking train 🚂 ⁣⁣
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It was when I picked up this simple mantra that changed my perspective immediately and has since stuck…⁣⁣
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“It’s my responsibility to get my message out to those who are seeking it.”⁣⁣
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so whenever I’d get wrapped up in my head or let my ego lead,⁣⁣
thinking the more “likes” the better… ⁣⁣
which is such an illusion…⁣⁣
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I’d remember that when I post from my heart, ⁣⁣
whenever something wants to come through,⁣⁣
that it will be received by exactly who needs it. ⁣⁣
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that’s it. ⁣⁣
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so,⁣⁣
fuck the likes, deliver your message. ⁣⁣
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you with me? 🤍⁣⁣
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if this is the message you needed,⁣⁣
drop a “with you!” below to anchor it in 💋

*volume up*! who doesn’t love a fun travel trans

*volume up*! who doesn’t love a fun travel transition video?! 💙⁣
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if you could go anyyyywhere in the world & it was fully paid for - where would you go?! 🌎✈️

financial freedom isn’t just about what it allow

financial freedom isn’t just about what it allows you to buy…⁣
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it’s also about the feeling it provides. 💸⁣
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- the life of an UNTAMED woman 💋

like who cares what he looks like, ya know? 😉💋👑⁣⁣
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just landed in Mykonos and I’m feeling ⁣⁣
like a whole V I B E in this outfit. ⁣⁣
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fun fact: starting at the age of like 5 I’d carry around a small suitcase in my own home just in case I was in the mood for an outfit change. ⁣⁣
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nothing has changed in that department since. ⁣⁣
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Bougie Queen all the way 🥂⁣ (IYKYK)⁣
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do you love intentional outfit planning for a trip?!

it’s all just so damn *delicious*….⁣ ⁣ del

it’s all just so damn *delicious*….⁣
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delicious has been my word the past few months and the more I play with & embody it…⁣
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the more delicious my life gets. ⁣
(even including the past “lower vibe” moments - keep reading towards the end)⁣
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the sunsets, I can feel the deliciousness of the silky colors mirrored on my skin. ⁣
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the breeze blowing through my hair with the top down in our sporty little Audi convertible as we whip through the island exploring aimlessly, delicious. ⁣
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the releasing of nearly $10,000 on 3 incredible rings as a birthday gift to myself (will do a whole post on this vibeyAF wealthy woman move bc it was an entire moment & the rings.. omfg 💦)⁣
…. pure abundant deliciousness. 💍 ⁣
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every morning as I sip my cacao overlooking the Mediterranean Sea laying on our rooftop bed, with my sexy husband soaking it in beside me… ⁣
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pure. ⁣
absolute.⁣
f*cking.⁣
d e l i c i o u s n e s s. ⁣
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even the reflection of the journey it’s taken to get to where I am in life is delicious. ⁣
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yes - all of it. ⁣
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the miserable 9-5 job I used to commute on the metro from my tiny 900 square ft in an apartment where I lived with 2 other people bc it’s all I could afford. ⁣
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the eating disorder that took over my life and years of Anger Management. ⁣
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the living in massive lack and scarcity, holding onto every dollar I made or spending it all immediately bc I feared I’d never make more. ⁣
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the divorce.⁣
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the living in my friend’s basement bc I had nowhere else to go during my transition.⁣
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all of it….⁣
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so absolutely delicious. ⁣
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bc every part of my journey,⁣
was *for* me ⁣
& will continue to be,⁣
to BEcome who I am today ⁣
& live the life I get to continuously live. ⁣
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cheers,⁣
fellow Queens reading this,⁣
to embracing ALL chapters of our journeys and seeing them as the delicious gifts of expansion that they are 🥂💋🤍⁣
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- the life, of an UNTAMED woman. ⁣

everything I do, I do with intention, for a very s

everything I do, I do with intention, for a very specific reason. ⁣
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the intention for this trip I journaled on and shared with @johnny.elsasser prior to coming was:⁣
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“I intend to be so extra present every single moment, savoringggg the deliciousness that the universe has for us to receive. To feel, be and embody the vibration of s3x, big wealth and play! To feel the breeze on my skin, to express myself in my pre planned curatedAF outfits and soak in the love between my King and I.”⁣
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& damn has this intention held true. 🥂💋💦⁣
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for me, if I don’t set an intention - I fly through each moment, waiting to get to the next thing. I catch myself future tripping, “shoulding” on myself or reaching for my phone for no reason - all fully taking me out of the gift that is the present moment. ⁣
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To help me fully bathe in this intention, I’ve kept my phone away and 99% of the photos/videos we’ve taken have been on J’s phone so I don’t even get distracted with mine. ⁣
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Intentions don’t have to be set for big trips - they can be set for a casual dinner date out with your partner, the day ahead if you have program launch, before eating a meal, walking outside…⁣
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Intentions help guide us on a clear and embodied path so we can fullllllly receive the medicine of each “now” moment. 🤍⁣
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bc isn’t that what life is all about?⁣
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soaking up fully all the now moments? ⁣
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here’s a little photo dump of the sexiness, play and things we’ve gotten into 😈 ⁣
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like buying the best table at a club by the DJ booth and dancing until 4am (who are we?!) having the time of our lives! 💃 🕺🏼 ⁣
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sending you some delicious vibes from Greece, the UNTAMED Bougie Queen way 💋👑

this trip to Greece has been more than just a cele

this is what 35 looks like for me 💦 🎂⁣ ⁣

this is what 35 looks like for me 💦 🎂⁣
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& I’ve been celebrating it the bougie Santorini, UNTAMED Wealthy Woman way: by renting a private Yacht to cruise us around the Mediterranean Sea. 👑 ⁣
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so grateful for this life that my soul chose to experience through. ⁣
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what an absolute gift 🤍🙏🏼⁣
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in pure bliss, celebration and expansiveness, always - but even more so today. ⁣

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I’d say the start to my 35th Birthday is pretty

I’d say the start to my 35th Birthday is pretty damn delicious 🎂💋 ⁣
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here’s to a magical day ahead with my King celebrating my 35th trip around the sun in the bougiest way yet 👑

this photo gives me all the feels… & brought me

this photo gives me all the feels… & brought me to tears, in an unexpected way. ⁣
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the feels and tears aren’t bc of the beautiful background. ⁣
or the designer heels⁣
or bag. ⁣
it has nothing to do with the location or anything external. ⁣
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as I write this, a tear trickling down my cheek…⁣
not because of this incredible life I get to live,⁣
but because who I’ve BEcome along the way to living this abundant life. ⁣
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I feel like it was just yesterday I would enter a store and go straight back to the sale rack to buy clothes bc I couldn’t afford full price clothing. ⁣
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or when I’d walk by a Louboutin store and ask “what do I have to do to be someone who can afford those shoes? I’ll probably never own a pair.”⁣
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I’d watch people on Instagram traveling the world and think “that’d be nice…”⁣
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as I turn 35 in two days…⁣
I reflect back on all the past “Taylor’s”.⁣
the cocaine using one, the alcohol abuser one, the in thousands of dollars of debt one…⁣
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& I think about what I would tell her, and it’s along the lines of:⁣
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don’t worry about what to do to have everything you desire…⁣
instead be devoted, get excited, be compassionate and patient with yourself as you keep unfolding who you truly are..⁣
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& lastly… damn, you’ll be so proud of you’ve BEcome by the time you’re 35 🤍⁣
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more about this trip,⁣
what a big deal this has actually been to have unfold and manifest,⁣
yet so, #ofcourse,⁣
soon to follow 🦋⁣
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I hope this was the reminder or permission slip (not that you need one wink wink) you needed to be proud of who you are, now, as you keep blossoming into your all BEcoming. ⁣
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💙 love - from Santorini 🇬🇷

aren't those moments so incredible?!⁣
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what's a moment you've had recently where you thought⁣
"omg! past me would be in awe or so proud!"?⁣
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use this post to celebrate it!

just a woman choosing to live her best life ☀️

just a woman choosing to live her best life ☀️💋🦋

the debate is on: is what I’m wearing a onesie o

the debate is on: is what I’m wearing a onesie or a jumpsuit?! ⁣
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Me: jumpsuit ⁣
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@johnny.elsasser + the TSA agent: onesie ⁣
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Cast your vote below ⬇️ ⁣
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also, don’t mind me, just getting more of my bougie birthday shopping on while playing with time at our layover ✈️

& I’m off ✈️ for the bougiest trip I’ve ev

& I’m off ✈️ for the bougiest trip I’ve ever taken (more on this later) because I turn…⁣
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35 next week! 🎉 🦁💋🥂⁣
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August 17th at 9:24am if you wanna set your alarms and dance with me, says the Leo! 😁 ♌️ ⁣
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if you’ve been watching my IG stories (if you don’t, hop to it! 👏🏼) I’ve been sliiiiiightly hinting at where we are going!⁣
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can you guess?! ⁣
let’s see who gets it right once I do my fun travel transition reel 😉 ⁣
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👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼⁣
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where am I spending my 35th?!

she's pretty fucking dope, yeah?⁣

she's pretty fucking dope, yeah?⁣
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I invite you to, ⁣
for the next 24 hours you show up as⁣
her in every moment.⁣
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& then see what happens because of it...

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